Cyber Security Awareness Month

How to Be a Good Digital Parent


Today our children have an incredible opportunity to learn, create and communicate through the use of technology. It is important that parents are confident in their understanding of digital devices, apps, games, and their ability to help guide their children at every age to ensure a positive experience online.

The City of Henderson is observing National Cyber Security Awareness Month in October and hosted the "How to Be a Good Digital Parent" workshop on October 18, 2017.  The free workshop featured presentations and tips from the city's Department of Information Technology and Henderson Police Department.  Topics included parental controls; social media content, contact and conduct; digital footprints; managing kids' online gaming; and setting ground rules.

The toolkit used for the workshop is available for download!  Please go to our Resources page to download the How to Be a Good Digital Parent Toolkit and additional resources!

Digital Parenting FAQS

Family Online Safety InstituteBelow are some helpful tips provided by the Family Online Safety Institute (

How do I filter out inappropriate content on YouTube?

You can block mature or age-restricted content on YouTube by scrolling to the bottom of any YouTube page and turning “Restricted Mode” to “On.” Restricted mode will only apply to your current browser. For a step-by-step guide, you can refer them to the FOSI website where there is a video walking parents through how to enable “Restricted Mode”.

How do I get family-friendly results from Google search?

From your computer, you can enable Google SafeSearch by visiting the Search Settings page. In the “SafeSearch” filters section, check the box next to "Turn on SafeSearch" For a step-by-step guide, you can refer them to the FOSI website where there is a video walking parents through how to enable “SafeSearch” in their Google browser.

What if my child is being bullied or harassed on Facebook?

Facebook offers tools to help deal with bullying and harassment. Depending on the severity, users have the option to:
  • Unfriend the person
  • Block the person
  • Report the person to Facebook
Facebook also has a “Bullying Prevention Hub” that provides tools, tips and programs that help people using their site stand up for themselves and others. The hub has sections for both teens and parents.

Can my child have a social media account before the age of 13?

Most social media websites and apps require users be 13 to register. When determining the age qualification for an app or social media site, it is a good idea to double check your findings. Sometimes there are age qualification discrepancies between the app stores and the Terms of Use Policy on the social media or app website. When in doubt go with the app’s Terms of Use policy for the appropriate user age.

How can I report inappropriate behavior on social media sites?

You can search on the social site or app for help on reporting content. Most have a “Help Center” or “Safety Page.” In addition, most apps and social media sites have guides for parents. These guides can help parents better understand their services and provide detailed information on how to report inappropriate behavior.

At what age should I give my child a cell phone?

According to FOSI’s latest research, the average age parents say their child got his or her own smartphone was between the ages of 11 and 12. Fifty-one percent of parents said their child got a smartphone when he or she was younger than 12. Make a decision that works best for your family, taking into consideration how responsible your child is and the expectations for phone use.

What parental controls software do you recommend?

There are a number of parental control software programs on the market today. Make certain that you do your research to determine the program that best meets the needs of your family – here are items to consider:
  • Filtering and blocking capabilities
  • Ability to record use
  • Ease of installation and use
  • Compatibility with different devices and monitoring systems
Remember to take a look at the built in parental controls on your computer, tablet, cell phone, and gaming devices. There are built-in controls right at your fingertips.